PART I
The Tin Man
in which a woodman loved someone
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A long time ago, in the country of the Munchkins, there lived a young woodman who chopped wood for his living. He was strong, and his hands were good with an axe, and he had a small house in the forest where he lived alone.

The woodman fell in love with a Munchkin girl. She lived nearby, with her old mother, and she was as kind as she was small, and the woodman thought there had never been anyone in the world he wanted to be near as much as he wanted to be near her.

He saved up money. He worked hard. He built a small cottage, with two windows and a stone chimney, where they would live together when they were married.

But the old mother did not want her daughter to marry. The mother was lonely. The mother wanted the daughter to stay home and take care of her. So the mother went to a wicked witch, in another part of the wood, and she paid the witch to do something about the woodman.

The witch enchanted the woodman's axe.

The very next time he went out to chop, the axe slipped in his hands. It cut off his left leg.

The woodman did not stop loving the Munchkin girl. He went to the tinsmith in the village, and the tinsmith made him a new leg out of tin. It worked just as well as the old one, after a few days of getting used to it. He went back to chopping wood.

The next time the axe slipped, it cut off his right leg. And then his left arm. And then his right. And then his head. The tinsmith made each of them in tin. The woodman kept going. He kept going for the girl.

At last the axe cut him in two, right through the heart.

The tinsmith made him a new body, all of tin, very fine and shiny and strong. But there was no place in the new body for a heart. The tinsmith did not know how to make one out of tin.

So the woodman became all tin, and lived on, and went on chopping wood, but he could no longer remember how to love the Munchkin girl, because the heart he had loved her with was gone.

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A long time before the Tin Man,
a man named John, who had loved Jesus most,
wrote a letter to his small church
about where love comes from.
Would you like to hear it?
A LETTER FROM JOHN

The Tin Man thought he had lost the part of him that could love. He thought love had a place inside him, a particular place, and that the witch had taken it away with his heart, and that the only way to get it back was for somebody to give it back to him.

John, who loved Jesus more than any of the disciples, wrote in his letter that love does not come from inside us. Love is of God. It is something that flows through anyone who is willing to let it.

The Tin Man did not need the wizard's silk heart. He had been loving his friends all along. Love had been flowing through him on the long road. He had only been refusing to call it that.

The silk heart was a kindness. The real heart was what he had been carrying without knowing.

Who have you been loving without permission?
What did you tell yourself it was, instead?

1 JOHN 4:7
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"He had been carrying it without knowing."
My wife died eight years ago. For three years after, I told everybody I had no more love in me. I said it was used up. I said it had gone with her. I meant it. I really did mean it. My granddaughter, who was four when her grandmother died, started coming to my house on Saturdays. She would sit on my lap. She would tell me about her dreams. She would ask me to read her books, the same three books, every week, the same way. I did not realize, for a long time, that I loved her more every Saturday. I thought I was just being patient. I thought I was just doing what grandfathers do. I did not have a category for what was happening. One Saturday, when she was about seven, she said, "Grandpa, you love me." Not a question. A statement. And I said, "Yes. Yes, I do." I had not used the word in three years. I did not know it was still there, until she said it for me. The Tin Man's silk heart is the day somebody else finally says it out loud, and you remember what you have been doing all along.
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, David, 64, Phoenix
there is another story about someone
who came home and found
that his father had loved him the whole time
he was gone, and had been waiting for him
on the road. it is the story of the Prodigal Son.
PART I OF IV